In the Daily Mail on September 9th 2016 there was an interesting article about "Can hypnosis boost your love life?".
It is a good article and a reminder on how quickly you can get results if you make an effort to change.
Sometimes when relationships are failing, you get to a place of hopelessness and stop talking. All relationships need to have good communication to be successful. It is important that you discuss problems coming from a place of love, respect, and support. It is equally important that you both come up with ideas for the best solution. Then you are working together to save the relationship instead of opposite sides.